Sandy's Feb 2020 Editorial

 

Hello Everyone,

This February I want to take special time out to send all of you my Valentine wishes for you to experience love and prosperity in all things, in your life, now.

It seems that love is something different to each person. For some love is all about feeling loved by others, for others it's about having someone in your life to give your love to. My friend, if love is either of those things to you, the loving nature within you is out of balance. You see, love is, no MUST, be a 2-way flow of energy. The person you love needs to return love back to you, or at the very least pass it on to another person, or the circle of love is broken.

Likewise, if someone is attempting to give love and caring to you, and you are not open or willing to receive it, the circle again is broken.

For the energy of love to flow freely, and grow, and the flow must involve giving AND receiving. You must do both. You must be capable of doing both.

Ask yourself, "Can I receive love? Do I allow myself to be receptive to the loving energy my partner is sharing with me?" " Can I give love? Do I find myself reaching out to another unconditionally, sharing myself with joy?"

Most people will initially say yes to both questions, and if they are feeling a lack of love in their life will blame it on their 'unloving' partner. But is that the truth?

Take a closer look at yourself. Do you know and understand what your partner or friend needs from you in order to feel love? Do they know and understand what you need from them, in order to feel that you are loved? If you don't understand what your partner needs, and they don't understand what you need, the circle of love is broken. Unfortunately it's likely your needs are different and go unrecognized.

This is where most people go wrong. Many of us, firstly, have never taken the time to consider what it is we are feeling when we feel that sense of being loved by another person, be it mother or father, friend or lover. Consequently, most of us don't even know ourselves what we require to feel loved. If you don't know what YOU need to feel loved, how can you tell your lover what that is?

Believe me, after many years of coaching people, I know there are many people who remain in loveless relationships with a partner they love but don't know how to exchange love with.

I discovered in astrology some great tools to help with this issue. I am a Gemini. As an air sign, for me being loved requires being listened to and understood. I need an exchange of ideas and deep communication. I need to feel a sense of acceptance and belonging. I am married to a Scorpio - that is a water sign. His requirement for feeling loved is very different. For him being loved requires touching and cuddling and physical and emotional warmth and being together in one another's energy, along with lots of creature comforts and shared emotional experience. Communication for him is mostly on a non-verbal level. If he and I are not both aware of one another's different requirements for feeling loved, neither one of us will ever know the other one truly loves us.

So how do two people whose expression of love differs so greatly succeed in sharing that emotion freely with one another, in a way that allows the circle of love to complete itself?

Even though it may feel awkward and alien, you MUST discover how your mate feels love best, and communicate your love to him or her in the best way they are capable of receiving it. And you must tell them, even teach them, how it is you can best receive their love.

An amazing thing happens when the circle of love is complete. A magnetic force between the people involved is created that is so strong and powerful, that it flows over and expands the loving nature of other people for one another as well.

A sense of loving joy fills the world around those people who have mastered this art of loving, and all who come in contact with them are energized by it. It is an energy of healing that inspires growth and prosperity and joy that becomes an energy of attraction to bring good things to all.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Love and Light,
Sandy Anastasi

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