Happy Birthday Scorpio 2020

This year it’s all about relationships and communication. At this point, you may have some wisdom, but ask yourself, do you have a need to control the conversation? Your third house of communication is loaded with planets activating your organizational skills, choices of what you will sacrifice and what you’re willing to work for. How strong is your push to dominate due to your feeling that you must show others that you have it all together or might not if someone interferes?

You also have things happening in your relationship house which is intensely connected to your communications. This is a time of sorting out who you think will be useful and who you will allow to teach you lessons about yourself. Of course, they won’t be allowed to know that they’re doing that, but nonetheless you may acknowledge, if only to yourself, that they are teaching you something about yourself and what might make a growth oriented relationship work for you.

 It’s time that you actually decided what you want in a relationship and who might have those qualities. The days of keeping everyone mystified by you has come to a close. Now it’s time to be real. Now it’s time to commit to a path that will either keep your perceived dominance or choose to allow yourself to be vulnerable to the rejection or acceptance of others. Be aware that what you have is nowhere near as important as who you are or who you think you are. A relationship is a mirror. Your acceptance by others is a compliment to how you feel about yourself. Your rejection by them is a wakeup call to address your shadow and what you attempt to deny about yourself through attributing it to others.

Assets, “respect” and image are a poor substitute for feeling loved and trusted. This is the time to put it all on the table and allow the chips to fall where they may. This is the time to allow others to choose you over your projected image. You are lovable you know. You’ve just been trained through neglect that you’re not. You just have to give others the opportunity to choose you…           

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